"He was right, it happened multiple times after that night. Um, when I was 18 I started dating a guy who was 25..were together a year and only broke up last week.We also used to live in a society where whites and blacks did not mix as much as they are now.We used to have schools without metal detectors in them, and the list goes on.We're looking for a life partner, not a father figure," 35-year old Ahna says, echoing every other independent woman out there.9.When the time comes to meet the parents, be super chill.
Believe me, I wish I could go back 40 or 50 years and stay there forever. One of the woes younger women tend to deal with when it comes to dating are men playing games with them. Yeah, sex is awesome, but unless you’re dating a nymphomaniac, you shouldn’t make sex the most important thing in the relationship.Don't try to pressure me into it (marriage, children, etc.)” 6. “The things you admire us for in the beginning can become tiresome to you as we both get older, so please make sure to be honest with yourself about why you are attracted to us, and if it's for who we are -- not how we make you feel.” 7.“One of the first times we were out at a bar together, the male bartender hit on me when my date went to the bathroom.He leaned in and said, ‘I know he has more money than I do, but I can do things to you that he’s too old for if you know what I mean.’ "I was so angry that I couldn’t speak.Keep up with her.“If age is nothing but a number, don't act like a grandpa.We like going out and doing things, so you better be ready to get that ass moving! So basically, if you don't like going out and getting drunk at the club or hitting some wack-ass music festival, maybe don't date a 20-something. Remember that she's not looking for a sugar daddy.“Not all of us are financially helpless.18 is an adult in the eyes of the law, but most of the 18 year olds I knew then and now are still kids.Society has always frowned on big age differences with couples, especially if that age difference is 10 or more years apart.I met my boyfriend when I was only 19 and he was 29, and we're still together and he's the most wonderful man I ever met, never been treated with more respect and love by anybody.She's just stepping into adulthood and there will be a lot of things she has to learn for herself.