To read more of my thoughts on this topic, visit my new site here.Dating a black woman for the first time can be terrifying.No, they are educated woman who are looking for a good guy. She always wanted a boyfriend who sits in the wheelchair. If I wasted my energy arguing with my haters, I would have no energy to write this article.They look like this: I know, you don’t see that in the movies. You insecurities, your past experiences, your self-confidence and your self-image play a role too. I think I don’t have to tell you which choice is the better one. If you wasted your energy arguing with enemies of interracial relationships, you would have no energy to start or to maintain your relationship.I just slapped your biggest fear in your face. In one of my previous articles I answer the question “Do black girls like white men? This one article turned my inbox into a battlefield. The same thoughts that you have, keep them awake at night. What will my friends and family think when I date outside my race? She has those fears and that’s why there is a high chance that she looks for you in places that don’t allow judgement, gossip and hate to enter the room.To illustrate my point, let me fill you in on the “tone” of various men’s right’s forums I used to frequent.It was not unusual for a black MRA to try so hard to get into the white MRA’s “good graces” that it borderlined on the homoerotic front.Or I send you a smiley fact with a link to this article that will take away your fear.A lot of black women like white men. Wearing a baseball cap and starting every sentence with “jo” won’t help you to survive the first date.Some of them dream about being in a relationship with a marshmallow. It will make her want to kill you, not jump in bed with you.
On the other hand, they will claim that black women are treated better or experience less racial discrimination than black men. White people love black men more than black women or do they love black women more.Most sane individuals wouldn’t even be concerned about being loved by the white race but damaged black men apparently do.So remember the next time you hear a black criticize black women, ask “who the hell are you to criticize anyone” and make sure you laugh at them.I’ve explored videos and forums where damaged black men referred to us as apes and posted pictures dehumanizing us.Isn’t that similar to what the Nazis and the KKK did and continue to do today? Couple that with their vast “eagerness” to pair with non-black women and you get a symptom of a much larger problem.Nothing wrong with marrying non-black women but one should do some research about whether or not these unions stand the test of time.That could tell us a lot about the true motives behind most of their relationships.If you were at the bottom of the totem pole among men, would you feel the need to pick on someone else in order to feel better about yourself?Anyone possessing a basic respect for human beings would not. Such brutes thrive on taking power from people they feel are weaker?You can only hope that she leaves her fake eyelashes at home and that she doesn’t twerk all night. Let’s have a look at when you date a black woman for the first time….Strippers, Grillz, loud Hip Hop music, rude behavior and gang member friends…That’s what a lot of white and Asian guys who think about dating a black woman for the first time imagine. Approach her like a blank paper and allow the experience to fill the paper with life.You can’t run away from it. The decision to date a black woman always contains the decision to experience gossiping, racist jokes and stupid comments. For now, accept that the gossip, jokes and all the other verbal diarrhea that makes you angry is something to expect when dating a black woman. The sooner you learn to deal with it, the happier you will be in your first relationship with a black woman. Defend your relationship when there is no other way, but don’t get bothered when there is another way. Tell her that everything is okay, that she shouldn’t worry about these dickheads and give her a kiss that proves that you love her. Start an argument with the person who insulted you, her, or your relationship and try to convince this moron to change his opinion.The music and movie industry did a really good job in making you believe that all black women are like this: What you don’t realize is that there are many black women who would love to date a white or an Asian guy and none of them looks like the woman in the image above. It’s not beautiful, not fair and it’s anything but empowering. If he doesn’t want to change his opinion, you can start a fight to prove how much you love your girlfriend.