Or if really bitter about the divorce, his unresolved feelings about the divorce might affect your relationship.
If he has kids, then you want to know what the arrangement is, so you can know what to expect when it comes to him providing childcare, and communication with the mother of his children.
If you find that your patience is continually being tried and it’s ultimately draining you, think about whether you have relationship needs and requirements that are going unmet.
He might have been divorced for a year and totally over his ex-wife, and the situation and they have is an amicable co-parenting agreement.
Maybe he’s ex-wife is super friendly and welcomes you into his life!
To be clear, there’s nothing wrong with being the rebound woman, if that’s what you want to be.
But, if you don’t want to be the rebound woman, and you’re not aware that you are the rebound woman, that’s when you’re at risk of getting hurt.