Like, they like to show up exactly 11 minutes late, so they don’t look too eager, but they don’t look rude or like they tried to show up late. There are all these weird rules in place and you can get into your own head. Either your date will like you or they won’t, and if they don’t, who fucking cares?
” —"More than once I found out way too late that my date didn’t like the restaurant we were at, or the concert I got tickets to, or what have you.
Especially when you have no clue what the person across the table is thinking.
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I don’t care if you’re checking messages or whatever, but that just made me feel like they had zero interest in me.” —"I’m just as nervous as you, if not more so.
The possibility of striking gold with the person sitting across from you, though, does exist.
With some luck, you'll find yourself actually enjoying their company, thinking about the potential of seeing them again.
Others noted that Fein was an accountant and Schneider a freelance journalist without professional qualification in the subject matter.
Fein married and divorced, and has recently remarried. The authors admitted they were not professionals in an appearance on NBC's The Today Show.