To find your match you would need to run so many extra miles including buying coins, invest lots of time by searching the search.
I would say just go out there and meet real people and spend the money on an evening out or on mini breaks (hotel breaks) otherwise you will be trapped in the fantasy airy fairyland by hoping that there is always someone better waiting for you around the corner (a better, bigger fish to fry...
I am quite assertive and would consider myself reasonably attractive for my age (mid 40s regular exercise, healthy eating, wear a "chin-length-bob", natural makeup etc...).
I can still make turn heads when I am out and about but in here, as a woman I thought I have many shortcomings (not the right height, not sexy enough, etc.).
In corresponding with him online, got the uneasy feeling that he was a Player and expressed that to him in no uncertain (though not vulgar) terms. This made me feel as though perhaps I was wrong and I apologized and continued our correspondence and eventually met him and became romantically involved.
The scandal broke when people were exposed on Ashley Madison and now he would go on Zoosk and Our Time with one month subscriptions to 'get' women for sex.
He was very good at this and when the 30-day sub ended he walked away with many women's personal email addresses.
DO NOT send any family pictures and that was my mistake. I did exchange a few email with someone I thought was for real until she asked for 0 for her Grandmother. Completely disgusted, I chose to browse and I liked one and got an email.
Recently my account was closed by Zoosk, upon asking what was up, they said my account had been spammed and needed to be closed. To read the reply, I joined for 30 dollars, and also got charged an additional 100 for coins I didn't want and the lady Profile I can't find. If you are into Tinder-style-dating (pictures only, no profile, or a few basic intro words) - this it might be the one for you - however why would you like to pay £25 month for this shallow way of hooking up with people?