When men act out in whatever way they act out, you’ll find what I just described at the heart of the matter: a deep feeling of separateness, insignificance and undesirability.
Most guys would never admit to feeling anything like that.
And now, a little over a year into the relationship you’re disappointed that he’s still the same guy… People do this all the time, but it doesn’t make it right or sane.
The fact is, this whole pattern of people projecting a fantasy version of someone onto the actual person is ludicrous.
Instead, you’re focusing on how YOU feel about it and that YOU don’t like it. You can feel hurt and victimized or you can open your eyes to the bigger picture…
and maybe learn something valuable about your guy in the process (maybe some need that he still needs met).
Let me shift your attention to the fact that you this guy.
If you want the relationship to move forward, find deeper areas where you can reach him and inspire him.
But let’s take a completely different side of this…
But let’s say that you were satisfying his every need.
Why would he be having these sexy, flirtatious conversations with these other women?