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Typically what I wind up getting involved with, is complete and total false advertising. But there's something definitely not right with this picture. You go through the mental checklist of things you remember from their profile and find that you've already had this conversation already. Maybe the person was a little shorter than you expected. But the reality is, this is the person you've been corresponding with, and your expectations didn't add up to it. And here you are now, having a date with someone, trying to live through those physical and emotional needs, trying to make it all add up.
And the brain creates the chemicals for perception. In my case, the texts become fewer and fewer until one day, I feel absolutely no reason to text someone who gives me 1 word answers anymore.
Your mind creates the chemicals for loneliness, which is the whole reason you're on the dating site to begin with.
That one good day, or good night where they appear to be having oh so much fun. One girl actually showed up on date with her 2 homosexual friends. I'm slow to anger, and have more patience than you could imagine. So I just kind of sat there alone, taking it all in. Things appeared to go well, and oh here comes her friend.
They're the life of the party, everything is awesome and the music is playing strictly for them. I thought to myself, alright whatever, she needs a wing man or 2, fine. The entire time at the restaurant, I was being hit on and flirted with by 2 guys who kept earnestly trying to put ice down the collar of my shirt, and making sexual innuendos. Met another girl who in the middle of our date, ran into an old friend by chance, and just kind of left me there to deal with the check.