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He’s opened my eyes to the fact that there are a lot of men out there who prefer plus-size women and that the pool isn’t as small as I thought it was.

And I feel very secure and confident when I’m with him.

Ultimately everybody’s looking to get to the next level, and for many men in New York, a larger woman is the bottom level, regardless of what she’s like.

I think they like the juxtaposition of hard and soft.

I guess it’s hard to say to somebody, “I have a great girl for you, but she’s fat—are you okay with that? People are image-conscious, and it takes a very secure man to advertise his preference for a woman of size.

No matter how many magazines start featuring plus-size women, in mainstream white culture, a woman who’s heavy isn’t considered as attractive as a woman who’s not.

I e-mailed and he wrote back, “I had fun making out with you—if you’re ever up for some more fun, let me know.” So then I knew that’s all he really wanted. So what’s the difference between hooking up with a fetishist and just hooking up with someone casually?

He wasn’t like, “Hi, I’m a fetishist,” he just wants to have sex with random plus-size women. Is someone who likes plus-size girls a fetishist just because his preference isn’t mainstream?


  1. Oct 27, 2010. I was on a date recently and a woman sat down at the next table, catty-corner to me. I was embarrassed and annoyed, already contemplating how I was going to get out at the end. I looked for other routes. A regular-size person wouldn't think about that. But I'm a plus-size girl. I'm also a publicist, an extrovert.

  2. Never feel lucky that someone has taken you, a fat girl, out on a date. Gone are the days where the store that sold plus sizes carried only loosely fitted, garish sweaters that you had to drape over yourself like Ms. Darbus in High School. Now there are many plus size boutiques that carry a variety of clothes for every style.

  3. Nov 9, 2015. Dating is not my forte. I'm bad at everything from the awkward conversations with people I don't know, to mingling uncomfortably with strangers at parties. It's not that I'm an introvert or anti-social alright, fine, I'm anti-social, it's just that over the years I've found that dating, as a plus-sized woman, is more of.

  4. Jan 8, 2018. Dating when you're plus size can be a minefield, right? I've teamed up with Badoo to tell you of some real life success stories from Badoo users on finding the loves of their lives. Spoiler alert - it is totally possible to find your happy-ever-after online!

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