The Instagram profile is the new window to the soul -- what you find there is critical in determining whether this person might be suitable for actual dating.
If her comments section is filled with heart-eyed emojis or “simply stunning” written by a dozen guys whose profile pics are all taken in the gym, that’s a problem.
Just because that girl you've started seeing has a decent Instagram page with some particularly impressive bikini shots does NOT mean this is someone worth investing in for the long haul.
Same goes for that guy with the rock-hard abs who also looks deceptively hot with glasses on.
Loud, expensive clubs get pretty old pretty quickly, and I really like sweatpants and soup.I’m talking about Beyonce, Rihanna, Fuck Jerry, The Fat Jewish, Betches, and every single one of the Kardashians. If a girl follows pop-culture drivel and nothing else that you find remotely interesting, it's a pretty good indication that you won't find much interesting in person, either. If it’s entirely Instagram models and meme accounts, you may want to rethink things. It gives them the aura of being important and like they gained their fanbase just off of these shots.It’s not uncommon for someone to post a normal number of pics and constantly delete them in order to keep their number of photos posted to a minimum. It’s pretty much what it was invented for, so I get it if a person wants to post their plate from a nice restaurant. Girl who habitually goes on first dates to get a free trip to a nice restaurant every night of the week? Guy who's taking a different girl out to a restaurant every night of the week? A steady sprinkling of food pics is fine, but if the flow is overwhelming everything else, it should give you pause.If a guy’s pics are filled with comments from horned-up ladies, then that’s also an eye-opener.As a rule of thumb, you want at least 50% of the comments to be members of the same sex -- and preferably friends.I always find it interesting to open up a girl’s following list and analyze what sorts of accounts she's into. And if you are Kanye West -- you're not single so what are you doing here?Almost 100% of the time you’re guaranteed to see at least a handful of the same ones. Anyway, following zero people is a dead giveaway that this person has WAY too high an opinion of himself/herself. People think they look better or come off more exclusive if they have a lot of followers but only a small number of pictures posted to their profile.Any evidence that actual real-world people like this person is an encouraging sign.However, not all friend comments are created equal.It means he or she doesn’t work or go to school or do anything productive with their time.Being available for heavy, boozy, midday meals four times a week is not something to brag about.