Or better yet, ascribe to the principles of Taoists who say that in doing nothing, all things get done. Going into a generalizing opinion on the subject matter, I would feel better if I knew for myself what exactly I want in a woman or if I was a woman to determine what I want in a man.
Open dialogue and honest communication seem to be the exception and not the norm too many times in their encounters with the opposite sex. Is it like the book and film said, “he’s just not that into you”?With so many “obvious” rules, it comes as no surprise that companies have now started classes teaching individuals to date. An eye-opening article appeared in an Australian newspaper column discussing such dating “boot camps.” Many times my therapy clients ask me quite earnestly what they should do, and my thoughts on their situations.Too often has a female client tearfully recounted tales of trying to message a guy, make things work, and do much of the legwork only to be brushed off or entirely ignored. Perhaps I didn’t try hard enough.” My secret hope is that they simply aren’t engaging with anyone who ascribes to games of cat and mouse.I love how women berate men for not being bold enough, but when the shoe's on the other foot its all, "OOO no, I'm afraid of rejection..." It called "equality" -- whoa, not as much fun as you all thought.I think women being aggressive is a great thing -- sometimes I find someone interested in me, that I would have assumed wasn't.Also, it helps women see how it feels to put yourself out there and get shot down.(However, many women have inflated egos so they make up other reasons the men rejected them.) As for those guys (or girls) that go for the top of the tree, its not so much that they're brave, they just don't care as much.It should come as no surprise that the dating landscape has changed significantly over the years.Just as quickly as technology advances, the speed and structure of romantic relationships appear to have done the same.(Does this mean those from the Midwest are the best mid-point?) Of course you should be simultaneously dating and texting as many people at the same time as possible, how else would you maximize efficiency?